What is Alligator Arms?

Alligator arms is slang for someone who will not reach: for the check, for the hard task, or for the risk the moment it costs them something.

How does alligator arms show up?

It looks like enthusiasm right up to the point of commitment. The teammate who loves the plan but never owns a piece of it. The investor who is very interested and never wires. The rep who books the meeting and will not ask for the order. Words stay long, arms stay short.

Why does alligator arms matter?

Startups run on people who reach past what is safe. One person pulling back is a gap someone else has to cover, and the cost compounds because nobody says it out loud. Naming the behavior is usually enough to fix it, which is why the phrase survives in sales floors and cap tables alike.

Where did alligator arms come from?

American football. A receiver who fears the hit keeps his arms tucked instead of extending for the ball, so he drops a catch he could have made. The language show A Way with Words traces the phrase and notes its second life: arms too short to reach the wallet.

How do you handle alligator arms?

Assign the reach to a name and a date, not to the room. Ask for the commitment in the meeting where it is cheap to say no. Watch for the pattern rather than the incident, since anyone can flinch once. And check yourself first, because the phrase is easier to throw than to earn.

Bottom line: Alligator arms is what happens when the appetite for the reward outlasts the appetite for the risk.

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